After many years of serving Masters and Mistress I can tell you one thing that is true about all of them. They are all different. Some of them want their slaves bald from top to bottom, some want fat slaves, some want thin slaves, some want hairy slaves, and some want cut and some want uncut slaves. Each Master or Mistress is an individual....if you want to be a slave you have to remember that. While you are basically nothing, or I should say that you have no real say, your Master or Mistress will have specific things they want you to be, do, and/or fulfill. However, regardless of an Owner's preference, there is a few things you can do to be ready, regardless of their expectations. Keep in mind, don't do these if you know it's against an Owner's preference.
Here You Go:
1. Be neat - shave your face, have your hair groomed (regardless of length) trim your public hair. If you have hair everywhere, leave it if you don't know...even if your Master or Mistress turns out to want you clean shaven, it's easier to do it after you know, than to do it before. However, the two areas you want neat is your face and your pubic area. Trim all the hair around your cock and balls, but no reason to go clean shaven unless you know in advance. Female slaves, shave your legs, and trim your bush. Let's be honest, a new Master or Mistress isn't going to like hairy legs and if they do end up examining your bush, you don't want them to have to go through a jungle to see the prize.
2. Dress neat - they are looking at not only how neat your body is, but what sort of looker are you in public. Wear nice clothing. Jeans should be neat, shirts pressed. Treat meeting a potential Mistress or Master as if you're going to an interview....because you are. Now, don't go to a biker bar like this, or to a corporate meeting, but in a general meeting, like a restaurant, small bar, etc, be neat and appear decent. Females should also dress neat, but you may decide to wear an attractive dress. No major rings or ear rings, be modest in this area. Wearing your Gor slave bracelet might be nice, unless your potential owner has no idea what Gor is, then it's just a waste.
3. Be honest - If you're fat, you're fat. Don't send them a picture of a super model and tell them you are going to rock their world if your tits bounce on your knees when you jog. Men, don't send them a picture of someone's tight abs and huge cock, if you're flabby with a fat cock. Nothing will turn a Master or Mistress off more than that.
4. As questions - simple questions during a meeting should be okay. Such things as "What do you seek in a slave?" "What is your ideal night with your slave?" "Is this a domestic slave, or sexual slave?" "What aspects of my life do you want to control?" Remember, while you are submissive, you still have to be happy or the relationship will just be boring for you both.
Final thoughts- be attracted to the person. If you are that hot blond, or hot guy and you show up and the guy weighs in at three hundred and has cheese dripping off his face, is this a turn on for your? Is this guy going to get your motor running by paddling your ass or making you masturbate while he watches. The bottom line is the relationship of a slave and Master or Mistress is a "Relationship". You have to be happy. I have personally had heavy set Mistresses, skinny ones, and neat looking Masters. I am, however, very open as a slave. My Mistress, the one many of you may have read about that died a few years ago, was heavy set in a wheelchair. To me it was very erotic to be owned and told what to do by someone bound to a wheelchair. It was intoxicating and my cock spent most of the time at attention and begging for more attention. I don't know if I could do that again at this point in my life. I am, however, looking for someone who will dominate me emotionally, but sexually as well. If I'm attracted to him or her, then we're on the right track, if I'm not, then I'm doing a potential Master or Mistress a disservice to try to serve.
I hope this helps you as you're looking for your new Master or Mistress....as for me, I'm still hanging out there in the wind and searching. Maybe my King or Queen will come along soon.
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Denial Experiment
The other day I decided to do some experimenting. It has been awhile since I did much of anything other than jack off. I would do the usual as a sub with no home. I would stand over the toilet, stand in the shower, lay back on the bed, kneel down on the floor. You know, pretty much wherever I wanted to go. So I decided for something a little different.
Since I have no owner at this time to control when I cum, I decided to do it myself. I purchased a nice cock cage, put it on, snapped the lock and then put the key away. It didn't take too long to realize how uncomfortable those things are for daily use. I had forgotten how awkward they can be to wear under clothing etc. Being as sexual as I am, I had also forgotten how restrictive they are. Erections are dead with these little babies on as you can imagine.
After a week, I decided that it was time to take a break. I wanted to see if a a man in his forties could still pump off as much after being denied as I did say in my younger years. I had no illusion about shooting the headboard like I did when I was eighteen, but at least it was worth I shot (no pun intended).
So, I decided to go with a gay porn domination site. You know I found one of those where the muscle boy is spread out on a table and some big bear is torturing his balls. I thought this is perfect. Now, since I'm not gay at heart (usually a plus for a male dominant by the way) and I prefer a female owner, using the gay site was a way to test and see how effective the device had been.
I turned on the pictures and set them to scroll over the screen. I then unlocked the device and allowed myself to pop free. Needless to say I went instantly hard as I imagined I was the young muscle stud in pictures. I reached over and got a little K-Y and started stroking.
Within just a few seconds, I could feel my stomach muscles tightening and my hips lifting slightly off the bed. I tried to maintain my gaze at the screen, but it was no use. My own sexual urges had exceeded those of the young stud on the screen who was now having some sort of shock device touch his balls. I felt myself edging closer to climax and as I did, I pumped faster.
Like most sessions, I began to imagine myself as the sub to some great dominant person. I imagined that He or She had me in front of all their friends and had decided I had to jack off for their amusement. Within seconds of that imagine entering my mind I exploded.
It felt fantastic and my experiment was a success. I had not felt that time of ejaculation in years. A little denial had led to a huge explosion. As I took a wash cloth, got up and moved toward the bathroom, I looked back at the bed for a moment. Right there on the corner of the headboard was a small, slow moving stream of white juice making its way downward. It wasn't as much as when I was an eighteen year old slave to Mrs. Penny, but it was a stream nonetheless....
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Story: Time Dom
Nathan watched the bead of sweat slip from his neck, onto his chest and glide slowly toward his firm pecs. "Perfect," he thought as he watched in mirror. Just as the bead rolled over the top of his nipple, he swiped it away with his finger. He turned and looked to Charles. "Bout done?"
Charles wasn't the time to sit by and watch his sweat slide down his own nipples. He was hard at work pumping the iron into the air over his head. His shoulders ached, but it was the kind of ache they needed to keep him in optimal shape. He pushed the weights high into the air, glanced at Nathan and said, "Weights off." The weights disappeared into thin air. Just one of the many benefits of holographic technology and what it could do for the world.
"So, what are you thinking about doing," Nathan asked. He was putting on his slimming shirt while maintaing a constant view of himself in mirror.
Charles picked up a round disk and pushed the button. It flickered for a moment and then a picture of a young woman dressed in full armor appeared standing there on disk. She was wearing bright silver armor, a helmet and hold a sword. For a moment Nathan did not realize what period the dress was from, but then it occurred to him and he smiled. "Who is she," he asked?
"That my dear boy," Charles said as he flicked off the image. "Is one Joan or Arc, or at least it is her during her heyday."
"She was what...about eighteen when she died?" Nathan continued to dress.
"Nineteen, with long flowing red hair and rumor has it a cherry that's never been popped," he winked at Nathan. "At least not according to history."
Nathan sat down and shook his head. "You know the rules. You can't mess with anyone who might have an impact on history. If you go to this girl, you run the risk of being fined or even prison time."
Charles sat down and smiled. He moved closer as if to tell a big secret. "She was in chains in jail under the watch of guards. It's thought that she had schizophrenia or even some other mental illness. It's perfect. I slip in as a guard, use this little saint and slip out. I'll even give her something to make her a little more delusional for the execution."
"You know she was burned at the stake, right?"
"Sure," Charles shrugged. "Doesn't matter to me. I'm just looking to add a little more history to my life."
Nathan laughed out loud. "Add a little more history to your life? You mean like you did that Betty Page girl you visited in the past?"
Charles smiled as he remembered, "Yeah, she was a straight arrow model, but a little time in front of her master and in chains and she was ready to model it for the world."
Heading to the door, Nathan added, "Well, just be careful. Screw with the wrong submissive in the past at the wrong time and you'll end up someone's sub in our time." He winked, "They'd likely give you cock and ass to me just for punishment."
End Part I
Charles wasn't the time to sit by and watch his sweat slide down his own nipples. He was hard at work pumping the iron into the air over his head. His shoulders ached, but it was the kind of ache they needed to keep him in optimal shape. He pushed the weights high into the air, glanced at Nathan and said, "Weights off." The weights disappeared into thin air. Just one of the many benefits of holographic technology and what it could do for the world.
"So, what are you thinking about doing," Nathan asked. He was putting on his slimming shirt while maintaing a constant view of himself in mirror.
Charles picked up a round disk and pushed the button. It flickered for a moment and then a picture of a young woman dressed in full armor appeared standing there on disk. She was wearing bright silver armor, a helmet and hold a sword. For a moment Nathan did not realize what period the dress was from, but then it occurred to him and he smiled. "Who is she," he asked?
"That my dear boy," Charles said as he flicked off the image. "Is one Joan or Arc, or at least it is her during her heyday."
"She was what...about eighteen when she died?" Nathan continued to dress.
"Nineteen, with long flowing red hair and rumor has it a cherry that's never been popped," he winked at Nathan. "At least not according to history."
Nathan sat down and shook his head. "You know the rules. You can't mess with anyone who might have an impact on history. If you go to this girl, you run the risk of being fined or even prison time."
Charles sat down and smiled. He moved closer as if to tell a big secret. "She was in chains in jail under the watch of guards. It's thought that she had schizophrenia or even some other mental illness. It's perfect. I slip in as a guard, use this little saint and slip out. I'll even give her something to make her a little more delusional for the execution."
"You know she was burned at the stake, right?"
"Sure," Charles shrugged. "Doesn't matter to me. I'm just looking to add a little more history to my life."
Nathan laughed out loud. "Add a little more history to your life? You mean like you did that Betty Page girl you visited in the past?"
Charles smiled as he remembered, "Yeah, she was a straight arrow model, but a little time in front of her master and in chains and she was ready to model it for the world."
Heading to the door, Nathan added, "Well, just be careful. Screw with the wrong submissive in the past at the wrong time and you'll end up someone's sub in our time." He winked, "They'd likely give you cock and ass to me just for punishment."
End Part I
Monday, July 8, 2013
BDSM Visitors
Hi all...your Texas Dog Slave here.
I just wanted to thank everyone for reading. As you may know blogspot has a page that tells how many visitors have been to a site. On average we see anywhere from a low 30 visitors a day up to 85-100 a day. This all adds up to over 43,000 page visits since this site started. I am so grateful to all of you for visiting. All the Doms and Domme's out there taking time, thank you. All the fellow slaves or want-to-be slaves, thank you for reading too.
My initial quest as you know was to simply make contact with a new Dom or Domme seeking an experienced bondage pet. To this date, I have not found one. I find it interesting that with over 43,000 visitors, most do not seem interested in linking up. While I could continue to tell you all the experiences I've had over the years, I'm considering changing direction and simply doing bondage fiction throughout most of the site. This, as a mix of real life and potential life, might give the Domme and Doms out there looking some ideas. It might give the slaves something to consider, and it might give the want-to-be's something to help you make it through...well, the night I guess. Over the next few weeks there will be a poll (not that kind of poll) on this page to the right. Please vote on how you would like this site to go. If I don't get a lot of votes, then I may let it go dormant. I don't think it really matters how many readers I have if I can't connect with you on individual basis.
So, please look over the poll and consider voting. Thanks!
Yours (could be with a brand new collar)
doug
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
When BDSM Slaves Grow Old
I was recently considering my own life. I started in this world of service when I was in my late teens. All through my youth I had yearned to "be lead" and controlled. By the time I was 19 I was in a couple of photo shoots in the Dallas area. I was being used on a regular basis for fun and parties and in my mid-20's I already had a master and two mistresses. Then, as many of you know, I met in my mid 30's a wonderful Mistress in a wheelchair. She controlled me for the next several years before she died.
Now I am faced at 45 with few prospects. It seems that most of the Dominant men and women seek young slaves. They seem to want that 19-25 year old range so they can "grow" them up and make them the slave they want. And, I must admit that at 45 my jewels dangle a little more than they used too.... But, overall I feel like I have a lot to offer. There has been some young women, interested in learning, approach me. Sadly, even though they were in the 19-30 range, none of them were serious about having a slave. They all basically wanted to "play with the idea" of having a male serve them. I remember one college co-ed that was 21 a couple of years ago meeting with me. We met in her dorm and then went to her room. When I knelt down in front of her, she asked me what I was doing. I responded that I was showing respect and assuming my position of service. Turns out she wanted her dorm room cleaned. I completed the task upon which she said, "Damn, you really will do anything won't you. Well, you're not fucking me tonight." I tried to explain that having intercourse was not my goal...although with this young lady I would not have had a problem with that had I been ordered to do so....but instead it was to serve. She laughed and hurried me out the door saying something about me being "too old for anything other than cleaning."
The bottom line (no pun intended) is that an old slave can sometimes be the best. He or she knows what to do and how to do it. The old slave can introduce the young dominant to a world of pleasure, fun, and and eventually, after a little reverse training, the young dominate will hold a leash to a collar of a well trained, and collared, dedicated older slave.
Monday, July 1, 2013
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