5 Ways to Test a Submissive Slave

A slave is someone who has agreed to submit himself or herself to the ownership and control of someone else. A slave is submissive at heart and in a good, healthy relationship that slave and owner should have a loving relationship with the power in the hands of the owner. Unfortunately, in this world there are many "want-to-be" slaves. These are men or women who love the idea of being a slave, but are not true slaves at heart. In other words, they play around with the idea. We all know the type. They sit behind the computer screen looking at domination pictures and jacking off. They may actually have a partner and imagine that partner holding them down during sex. They may even convince a partner to "tie" them up loosely and "take control". However, when the true moment comes to submit, the truth becomes that the person really liked the idea of being a slave and cumming and not the actual event of being the slave.

In the past I have served some very intelligent Mistress' and Masters. I say they were intelligent because they knew how to find the real slave and not the phony want to be slaves. It happened to occur to me recently that, while they had some ideas very much different about handling a slave, they all had the same view on determining a true slave. Here's a few things they have done to determine if someone is a true slave, or submissive, or if that person is simply wanting to get off on the idea:

1. Denial of gratification - simply put they don't let their slave's cum. They control the outcome (pun intended) to the point where a male slave is severely blue-balled and the female slave is denied satisfaction. You can imagine the ways.

2. No sex- the submissive is willing to...well, submit. Some have them clean the house, wash cars, cook, or other domestic chores. There is no gratification for the slave in the way of sex or the ability to even provide sexual favor for the owner. They make them a domestic slave until such time as they determine the true nature.

3. Public Display - I have to admit this was safer in the days before digital cameras and phone cameras, but basically they said, "Here's your outfit and leash. Oh, and by the way I have a half dozen friends coming over for a party. You will serve drinks in this outfit." You can imagine what, if anything, the outfit looked like on the slave. I did this once with nothing but cowboy boots, and a black mask on. Needless to say the idea of dong flopping around in front of ten gay men shook me up a little and greatly entertained my Mistress at the time. Well, at least they enjoyed it all.

4. Cum Dumpster - This was one of my first test as a slave. I was hot, I mean hot for my Mistress. I had imagined all the hot stuff we were going to do and I was going to put it to her. When the time came for sexual gratification, I found myself on all fours licking gently and aggressively between her legs. This did nothing but build my anticipation. After satisfying my Mistress, she took my cock, gently stroked it a few times and stopped the minute I started to unload. As you can imagine it just shot out into the air with my basically humping my hips while I was searching for her hand. She had made me put on a rubber, which I foolishly thought was for sex, but ultimately it seemed to deaden my sensation. I humped the air, moaned and fell back. You can likely see the horror that went through my eyes when She told me to take it off and suck the contents out. This was my first time of being a "cum dumpster". Oh, and just for those a little excited by this....yes, I've been a cum dumpster for myself and others many times.

5. Watch the fun - this is likely the cruelest way to test the slave. You think you're it basically and that your Master or Mistress wants only you. In the end you watch Him or Her have sex with someone else. The first time this happened my owner had me tied in the room where I could see the bed. My owner then brought in a partner, kissed a few times, watched my cock get hard, laughed and turned out the lights. I could see nothing (unfortunately men are visual creatures) and all I could do was listen to the moaning and the movement of the bed. I don't mind saying I was one blue-balled boy when that was over.

There are several other ways to test a slave's true desire, but the above ways I've seen in action on several occasions.